5/21/2012

INDIVIDUAL PSYCHOLOGY








Individual Psychology
Each of us hated; each of us loved. The panorama of our emotions is not strongly tragic or delightful; our life experience is ordinary. A total novel about the true life of anyone, regarding his actual emotions, his actual self expression, would be common place. We come to the conclusion that most people, in depths, correlated with true valuation, are very much alike, much the same. The outer biography of the nervous system, sensation, emotion, fantasy, would be surpassingly alike. Most people have fantasy; of something that has never happened; or they look for something to happen which does not. If we could look into the interior of of outwardly miserable (or happy person), to know their daydreams’ and fantasies, we should find (an inner life) much alike for all; not interesting, not fascinating, but worthwhile.
This is kind of diagnosis of the behavior of mankind in their normal state; but this is so called normal/state actually abnormal.The fact that mankind is disjointed, that people do not agree with one another: this is fall of Man. Moreover Individual psychology is the science of the ordinary. It does not think that others need reform; it reminds the individual that he needs reform. 
What is a curio; the neurotic, as ordinary man, smells the blood of human life; but he does not want to be ordinary. This is horrible feeling; pore menthe thought about himself: ‘POWER STRIVING; I am the different from others, deserved to be saved specially, my vales is not limited.’’They steal time of others, steal perfection from others, thoughts, and are pestilence and disaster for human civilization.
Moreover each of US need love, care success in life; each of us deserved his cup of joy.But ivory of selfishness of neurotic ether psychotic, craving for perfection has uncanny trick of destroying some ones else.

Bilo ko da pobedi....

5/20/2012

The Colossus of Maroussi..Miller


<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/246.The_Colossus_of_Maroussi" style="float: left; padding-right: 20px"><img alt="The Colossus of Maroussi" border="0" src="http://photo.goodreads.com/books/1327988636m/246.jpg" /></a><a href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/246.The_Colossus_of_Maroussi">The Colossus of Maroussi</a> by <a href="http://www.goodreads.com/author/show/147.Henry_Miller">Henry Miller</a><br/>
My rating: <a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/332626738">5 of 5 stars</a><br /><br />
 EXCELLENT BOOK FULL OF EMOTIONS, ARTISTIC OBSERVATION'S BUT WITH DEEP UNDERSTANDING FOR THE REAL NATURE OF GREECE AND HER HISTORICAL IN HERITAGE.Miller have it this so called deep sense for feeling of Saint places of Ancient's, to live under this impression like he has writed about ARGOS AND KING AGAMEMNON.HOW HE FELT THE REALITY OF PLACES WHERE IS LIGHT MIXED WITH HUMANS AND GOD'S..<br />EACH PAGE OF THIS BOOK IS MASTER'S DEPICTION OF ANCIENT GREECE..AS COULD BE..
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5/19/2012

DARK TRIAD

Dark Triad

HURT FEELINGS..
STING OF REBUFF WHCIH SUGGEST THE PHYSICAL NATURE OF THE EMOTINAL ACHE.Laughing and crying come spontaneosly in primal moments of social connection - births - weedings - first kiss and long deffendered reuunions. Distress at separation and joy at bonding about both be speak the primal power of connection. When our need for closeness goes unmeet emotional disorder could be a result for :''Sociall deppresion'''.
Psyhologist have coined the term ''socilal deppresion'''
for the particular unhappiness caused by troubled, threatened relationships.Socila REJECTION - or fear of it - is common cause for anxiety.
Still when we hope to be a You, being treated like an It, as we though we do not matter, carries a particularly harsh sting.
People who are self absorded , best in their inner world, havelitlle choice but to project own thoughts and that sensibility onto whomever they perceive.
People who are disabled to feel or to have empathy with another's being are fre types..
''Narccist, Machiavellians, Psychopats.''This is so called Dark Triad.. whcih shere to varying degrees an unappealing, though sometimes.
Well we should say what we think..to purify mind..because it is better to be honest that to lie..
For instance if you could not stand somebody you should avoid this person very polite..
If is love stooped between two of them why they should prolong to be together..Do not be a lier..It is better for person whcih still loves you but you did not..Told to her..
People are hide truth..in socila connections..but it is maybe easier way..but not good..
Diplomacy is good..bot not the best..
We could hurt feelings of another but we not should to continue to hurt him if we could not stand him..this is issue of some love relation..maybe of lot of..
Second the machiavellism  is bloody Utility..dont do ti...one day ot would be retorted..
Well legend about Narciss is known..:the Motto is>''Others Exisist to Adore me''..Each of us love it to be respected, beloved, etc..but we shoudl be prepared to giv it..to share same feelings..
Naturally All of us is not famoous and talented as Salvador Dali or Monika Beluchi..Panter and Beauty..but each of us has some value..
And on te end no body is Innocent Saint...
HUGS..ANJA