Dark
Triad
HURT
FEELINGS..
STING OF REBUFF WHCIH SUGGEST THE PHYSICAL
NATURE OF THE EMOTINAL ACHE.Laughing and crying come spontaneosly in primal
moments of social connection - births - weedings - first kiss and long
deffendered reuunions. Distress at separation and joy at bonding about both be
speak the primal power of connection. When our need for closeness goes unmeet
emotional disorder could be a result for :''Sociall deppresion'''.
Psyhologist have coined the term ''socilal
deppresion'''
for the particular unhappiness caused by troubled, threatened
relationships.Socila REJECTION - or fear of it - is common cause for anxiety.
Still when we hope to be a You, being treated like an It, as we
though we do not matter, carries a particularly harsh sting.
People who are self absorded , best in their inner world,
havelitlle choice but to project own thoughts and that sensibility onto
whomever they perceive.
People who are disabled to feel or to have empathy with
another's being are fre types..
''Narccist, Machiavellians, Psychopats.''This is so called Dark
Triad.. whcih shere to varying degrees an unappealing, though sometimes.
Well we should say what we think..to purify mind..because it is
better to be honest that to lie..
For instance if you could not stand somebody you should avoid
this person very polite..
If is love stooped between two of them why they should prolong
to be together..Do not be a lier..It is better for person whcih still loves you
but you did not..Told to her..
People are hide truth..in socila connections..but it is maybe
easier way..but not good..
Diplomacy is good..bot not the best..
We could hurt feelings of another but we not should to continue
to hurt him if we could not stand him..this is issue of some love
relation..maybe of lot of..
Second the machiavellism is bloody Utility..dont do
ti...one day ot would be retorted..
Well legend about Narciss is known..:the Motto is>''Others
Exisist to Adore me''..Each of us love it to be respected, beloved, etc..but we
shoudl be prepared to giv it..to share same feelings..
Naturally All of us is not famoous and talented as Salvador Dali
or Monika Beluchi..Panter and Beauty..but each of us has some value..
And on te end no body is Innocent Saint...
HUGS..ANJA