''Hurt Feelings'' of a rebuff -which suggest the physical nature of the emotional ache. Laughing and crying come spontaneosly in primal moments of social connection - births and deaths, weedings and long deffered reunions. Distress at separation and joy at bounding both be speak the primal power of connection. When we are need closeness goes unmet, emotional disorders can result. So called ''SOCIAL DEPRESSION''.
Psychologist have coined the term ''social depression'' for the perception of the particular unhappines consed by troubled, threatened relationships. Social rejection - of fear of it = is one of the causes for the anxiety.
Still when we hope to be YOU, being treated and IT, as we though we do not matter, carries a particularly harsh sting.
People who are self -absorded, best in their own inner world have litle choice but to project that sensibility whomever they perceive.
So if we could we should try to do it several things:
To harmonise those four terms:
Strenght
Weakness
Acceptance
Needs
If we could just to try it to accept our own personality at it is, another people how they are, to understand what we could change and what we could not...we will be in harmony with our self and with out side world..of people and order of words and things by Foucalt.
